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Forum Index > Off-Topic Discussion > An Announcement by LDDarcWolf
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LDDarcWolf
Level 70
The Dreamer
Joined: 10/25/2013
Threads: 283
Posts: 4,568
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 4:14 PM Post #1
Hello friends and fellow Sylestians,

This is you're friend/acquaintance/fellow Sylestian LDDarcWolf, other wise known or addressed as Lucian, LD/LDD, DarcWolf, and Wolf.

I've got an announcement to make about myself, and it's important that I share this with all my friends here.

While genetically/biologically I'm female, and I do have a child, I personally identify as being Gender-Fluid. I'm now openly admitting to this, because I feel that it would be more damaging/hindering to continue to keep it hidden.
http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Gender_Fluid
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gender%20fluid

Additional Note: I'm fine with both masculine, neutral, and feminine pronouns, or you can simply address me by any of the names above


I also identify as being Pan***ual. I've pretty much always found myself more attracted to people for who they are as a person(ie their personality is what counts) rather than their gender(biological and identity), how they identify, ect.

Again I feel that it's the healthy, and right thing for me to share this with my friends.

I know that I may make some of you uncomfortable to say the least, but I'm still the same person that you have come to know and maybe even hold dear as a close friend. Please know that I'm still the same, I just had to get this out. I'll still be open to talking, trading/selling pets to you, and be active here.

Thanks for reading, and your support.
LDDarcWolf
Edited By LDDarcWolf on 5/15/2016 at 11:01 PM.
PureBloodBlackRose
Level 60
The Tender
Joined: 4/10/2016
Threads: 81
Posts: 1,604
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 5:43 PM Post #2
I told you if you just were truthful and came clean, you'd feel better~!
LDDarcWolf
Level 70
The Dreamer
Joined: 10/25/2013
Threads: 283
Posts: 4,568
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 5:49 PM Post #3
Yep. It's just my history(being heavily bullied, along with several other things) it takes a lot for me to get myself together to say things(or type them).
Homera
Level 67
Trickster
Joined: 2/28/2016
Threads: 115
Posts: 1,599
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 6:39 PM Post #4
Im glad that you feel you can trust us. I personally don't care about gender just personality, though I understand it's part of you. I still love having you as a friend!
LDDarcWolf
Level 70
The Dreamer
Joined: 10/25/2013
Threads: 283
Posts: 4,568
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 6:45 PM Post #5
Thank you Homera. :)
Kalores
Level 75
Shadow of the Moon
Joined: 8/11/2013
Threads: 110
Posts: 3,558
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 7:59 PM Post #6
I'm proud of you for having the courage to come out and be proud of who you are. Everyone in this world is unique and amazing, which makes the world such an interesting place! :)
Littlemissmoriarty
Level 75
Supernatural Shopaholic
Joined: 5/9/2015
Threads: 329
Posts: 2,510
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 10:37 PM Post #7
That takes a lot of courage to say. And even moreso to do on the internet. It's quite nice getting to know folks who are open about themselves, and are comfortable being able to do so, and not forced.
Lots of support for you LD, and I hope you have a good amount of outlets at home as well. These days, it is definitely a bit easier to come out as such, than it was say, 20 years ago. or even 10.

Internet side hugs for ya!
Hope you have a wonderful night now that is off your chest, and hope you are doing well :))
LDDarcWolf
Level 70
The Dreamer
Joined: 10/25/2013
Threads: 283
Posts: 4,568
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 10:55 PM Post #8
Thanks Kal. I've spent like the last 10 years(probably longer) trying to understand, and figure things out. And naturally now that I'm 100% an adult I finally had the proper level of compression and learned enough to figure it out.
LDDarcWolf
Level 70
The Dreamer
Joined: 10/25/2013
Threads: 283
Posts: 4,568
Posted: 5/15/2016 at 10:59 PM Post #9
Thank you Misstrious. :)
I usually find it a bit easier to speak online than in real life because of my anxiety(social/general), but it still does take me a while to work my way to making it known online because I have difficulties wording things in clear terms and concisely enough that there's little to no confusion.

Thanks for the hugs and support.
Sonally
Level 60
The Tender
Joined: 6/2/2015
Threads: 23
Posts: 499
Posted: 5/16/2016 at 12:31 AM Post #10
Aww feeling so much love here :D I love being a part of Sylestia for this reason. So glad I belong to a compassionate, understanding and loving family :D

Wolfie, you have nothing to hide or be ashamed of. This is who you are. I think majority will agree that identity, gender issues, ***uality etc don't matter much to any of us. I'm just glad you have the courage and strength to be so open about it. Absolutely amazing. YOU are amazing & I'm sure your little one is lucky to have you.

Big hugs, hun. Even if no one else, you have me as a life-long friend :*
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