So I've recently found myself in a bit of a dilemma. Sometime over Summer Fest someone referred to me as "he/him". I had told them I didn't really care but I was female. I guess I'm just really used to female pronouns but when they said "he/him" my heart just.... warm melt???


So now I'm confused. Because I'm comfortable with my body, I don't hate it or anything infact I dare say I'm lowkey proud of it. Which if Wikipedia isn't lying to me means I'm "Cisgender."


But now I'm thinking about this, I've roleplayed as a male character before, which, I believe is not super unusual when you think about it. However I've almost always roleplayed as a male. There may be one or two times I played female, and I don't think it lasted.


So I'm a cisgender female who prefers the male pronouns? This is honestly so confusing to me. I've done some reading on the internet and I haven't found a term for this, but I have found some similar cases which is inspirational. I know there is they/them also[genderqueer? I don't think I am], but I definitely do not like this, I almost dislike it really. < I suppose this means I do care what pronouns people use on me, huh? xD

I do not think I'm genderfluid either, I don't have days I feel more masculine or more feminine. I like collared dress shirts and I like open shoulder shirts. I like tank tops and I like crop tops. I like sneakers and I like wedges. I like everything all the time [except those awful parachute pants...I mean seriously guys.]




Does anyone know what this is called? I'm really puzzled here. I'm not saying that playing as a male character in writing is a way to tell how I really feel about this. The way I really feel about this is confused, but happy when someone says "he/him." So that. If it helps I'm currently identifying as Pansexual since it fits my sexual inclanations pretty much to a point. [And no this doesn't mean I can fall in love and have a relationship with a chair if it had a personality >-> You like your cat don't you? Does that make you Pan? No.]

Maybe I should make this an offical term.....what do you guys think about Weirdo? :D


Apart from my own dilemma do any of you have weird gender/pronoun/sexuality issues? :3c

I legit just edited my post to explain why I didnt think I was genderfluid xD Good timing

Well, I mean I think I identify as female and everything but I'd rather be called they or them? And I like male pronouns as well, I really don't care what I'm called but I feel female although I'm pretty tomboyish so I guess I am female.
I like both male and female avis. I'm sure someone here has thought I'm a guy.

I get you I think xD I'm not afraid to touch a worm but I will NOT hook one, dear god ewww.

Yea, plus I wear oversized sweaters and jeans all the time but that might just be me being nerdy.

I would wear that too if I didnt live in satans steamy butthole-Florida xD

I feel ya in Cali but it's getting cool so I don't have to wear t-shirts and shorts anymore.

...well maybe not the jeans. When theres nobody around I honestly prefer short shorts. [the pj ones not denim] there just super comfortable >3>

THe OC i roleplay as most of the time (Nicky the Creep) is a guy through and through.

However my self-designed OC, Caterina Orkhanna, is basically me in a nutshell. I'm a survinign twin (oof would that explai nthe weird line runing down the middle of my stomach? maybe) but I'm a girl. And idk if my twin was feminine or masculine.

Anyways, I use she/her irl, she/her/them/they online. Because i'm weird.

I haven't had a major crush (only once and...that was...weird...it was on tour and ps. do not crush on tour it is very awkward) but as of late ive had guy and girl friends in my friendgroup. I happily go crazy with the whole lot of them (and unlike that crazy drama-obsessed calss below and above us none of us relaly do the boy/girlfriend thing). I like jeans, shorts, skirts, dresses, suits, anything that's comfortable and still a little classy.

So yeah. Same...

Just don't call me a full-out guy.