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Lokiarti
Level 61
Joined: 2/21/2016
Threads: 107
Posts: 3,979
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 9:47 AM
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well, I'm not that kind of person who you'd expect to ask for moral support, but this time is different.
I've been here for a while, and even though I didn't make any close friends, I've met a lot of nice and understanding people on this site. the community here is really helpful and supportive. it's inspiring to see people doing good things for free, just because they're...generous and altruistic, I'd say. reading all those nicely written posts on forum always makes me feel better - I'm sure it even had a good influence on my depressive state (which I'm dealing with at the moment).
anyway, now it's my turn to ask for some help from you. long story short, I've been on a diet (lots of different diets actually) from the beginning of this year, I've lost about 15 kilo and it was going pretty good until... um... you know, love always comes when it's least expected. ^^; not saying anything bad about the person I fell in love with, but it all didn't go so well and I gained almost all the weight back. ten months of working on my body just went down the drain. and I'm not actually sad or angry, I just want to know that someone, somewhere, would believe that I can return into a good shape once again.
so that's it. maybe it sounds weird (for me it sure does), but I need to hear something like "you can do this" specifically from you guys... not asking for advice, just, um, say that you believe in me? ^^;
oh my... that was kinda hard to type. thanks for reading all that, I love you. :D
Coda
Level 75
The Majestic
Joined: 7/20/2014
Threads: 134
Posts: 2,575
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 10:12 AM
Post #2
You can do anything. I believe that 100%. There is absolutely nothing you cannot do. I am as stubborn as they come, so nothing can convince me that you can't do it. Go, beat the weight!
*enthusiastically waves pom-poms*
Edited By Coda on 10/24/2016 at 9:55 PM.
Skywright
Level 75
Trickster
Joined: 8/25/2016
Threads: 8
Posts: 992
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 11:28 AM
Post #3
You can definitely succeed! You were strong enough to succeed once you can do it again and hopefully feel better than ever.
SynchroFraction
Level 66
Scout
Joined: 2/16/2013
Threads: 3
Posts: 187
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 11:58 AM
Post #4
YOU CAN DOOO IT!!! Keep on going and you'll reach your goals again! You already did it once, so there's proof that YOU CAN DO IT! :D
Lokiarti
Level 61
Joined: 2/21/2016
Threads: 107
Posts: 3,979
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 12:22 PM
Post #5
yay, thanks! ^^
Kalores
Level 75
Shadow of the Moon
Joined: 8/11/2013
Threads: 110
Posts: 3,558
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 1:29 PM
Post #6
Good luck, and I know you can do it! It may be tough, but if you did it once, you can do it again! Just work hard and believe in yourself! :3
Katelynn4545
Level 71
The Artistic
Joined: 5/24/2015
Threads: 350
Posts: 17,634
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 1:41 PM
Post #7
I believe in you 100%!!
Faeyla
Level 75
Trickster
Joined: 10/11/2014
Threads: 44
Posts: 1,340
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 6:10 PM
Post #8
Life does rather like to throw curve balls doesn't it? The important thing to remember is that you managed to figure out a way that worked for you to lose the weight in the first place. That's a big accomplishment. You can absolutely do it again!
Now to take my own advice and get back on track myself. :-P
PureBloodBlackRose
Level 60
The Tender
Joined: 4/10/2016
Threads: 81
Posts: 1,604
Posted: 10/24/2016 at 11:59 PM
Post #9
Never, ever, ever give up. No matter where you live, who you are or whatever the condition, giving up won't get you anywhere. I believe that anyone can be who they want if they just tried.You are more than capable. There will ALWAYS be dead ends, bumps and obstacles. You don't move on, you carry your mistakes with you and learn from them. Moving on is leaving them behind, which leads to many more mistakes. You also find it's quite hard to move on because memories stick with you everywhere. Don't say you can't do it and don't say that 10 months are down the drain- they're not. Y'know why? It proves that you can do it. Depression is very very hard but if it becomes serious I reccomend going to a therapist or psychiatrist to help get through it. I give you nothing but love and support :)
Amarok
Level 75
Terrifyingly Thrifty
Joined: 4/17/2015
Threads: 105
Posts: 2,892
Posted: 10/25/2016 at 4:39 AM
Post #10
I know you can do it, Loki! You did it once, you'll do it again! :)
That's what's great about being human (or whatever you classify yourself as), we're not the toughest creatures in the pond, but we're damn resilient. Hurricane comes and destroys everything? We stand back up and rebuild. Volcano incinerates everything? We still come back and live there when it's all good again. Same with health-y-things: We work on something, then we fall out of shape. It happens. We get up and try again, and we don't give up!
I stopped lifting those dumbbells, but I need to do it again for moar muscle powers... I feel motivated!
#Humans(OrWhateverWeAre)Forever
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