my grandma was giving me a ring thats worth alot of money and i decided where i am at isnt a good place for it atm where i currently live so i decided to let my bio dad (i have 2 dads) keep it for me and he told me i probably wont get it if its worth alot. he does drugs so hes probably going to pawn it off. i made a stupid mistake

well i asked him if he would pawn it off and he blew up at me saying i said a nasty thing by accusing him of doing something like that. i think someone could be feeling guilty...

First thing :
*hugs*
Because you probably needs it!

Dont' feel bad, it's a bit normal that you're scared he sell it after he said that you "probably won't get it if it's worth alot".

I don't know how is your dad or how is it at your house, but if your dad ever REALLY sell it(even just not giving it back to you), it's him who should feel bad for taking something given by your Granma.

You could always try to ask it back from your dad, because you'd "really like to wear it" or "Granma want to see you wearing it".
If he doesn't give it back to you, you can maybe see with your Granma or other dad?
(I'm giving this Advice not 100% how your home is like, but anyone you can trust and know they could talk to your dad who kept the ring.)

What I suggest, is that next time your Granma want to give you something and you're still living in a place where it seem not safe to have something valuable.
Tell her to put it away for later on, like when you move out of the house or anything like it(as I don't know how your life is or even how old you are~ ;3)

She could put it in a nice box with your name on it, maybe you could even paint it with your Granma or anything, so it'll feel special when you'll receive it.
Like this, maybe nothing like this will happen again~ :3
I might not be good for helping you getting it back, but if this can prevent it for ever happening again, I'll be happy for you~ ^-^

May you get lucky and get your ring back!
(And don't forget the idea of the box, might be a good idea, bet your Granma's home sound safer to keep all the precious things if you say your surrounding isn't~ ;3)

I can't really be there with you, but I can be here with you on Sylestia, please never be shy bothering me with how you feel, as well as the other Sylestians, we all hope everything get better for you~ :3
(Sent you a Custom Scythe of mine, not much, but hope you like it~ ^-^)

awww thanks. the funny thing is i phoned him and he got really mad at me of accusing him of selling it. he said the reason he said about me not getting it back because its worth money is because he thought maybe my grandma may not want to give it to me right away then. like maybe an inheritance

Didn't your Granma gave it to you directly?
If she did, then she think you have the right to have it now, no?~ ;3
And if it's really inheritance and your dad think it's not "the time to have", your Granma could always be the one taking care of it in such case.

If he doesn't want to give it back to you, I really suggest you go to the rest of your family to get help, if your dad see that you got "back up" for getting back your ring.
Especially if the Granma who gave you the ring, insist that she want you to have it, it'll make it clear he have no reasons to keep it.

I suggest you maybe doesn't give HIM anything to keep for you~ :3
I'm thinking it would have been maybe even safer to actually have kept it with you~ ;3
Even if you seem to think it's not.

If you ever need more help, feel free to ask me or anyone else, either from the Forums or personally.
We'll do all we can to help you out and try to give advices!

I hope everything will go well, do not give it up!
It is your ring, so don't stop until you know what have happened TRULY to your ring.
If he sold it, then make sure you know, even if it's a sad new, at least, you know the truth.
I hope it's not sold and that he give it back, a Granma's gift is quite precious, as much as anyone as important in our lives~ ;3

*hugs*
Tell me how it goes okay?
Good or bad, I want of your news on this and hope everything will turn out good!
So mail me when something happens!
That you need cheering or anything, I'll be happy to be there~ :3
I'll answer as soon as I'm back home(kinda work, otherwise I'll probably stare my Inbox to see if anything happened! o.o)

ok thanks very much. the ring is worth possibly 10 grand. so yeah it may be worth alot. my bio dad is going to get it appraised. after he gets it appraised if he still wont give it back and my grandma says i can have it i will let her know

If he doesn't seem to "get it appraised soon", try to get it back saying that you and *insert the name of any other family member you would like, maybe Gramna?* will be going together.
(Even if it's not true, it's just to show that you can go by "yourself" and that you do expect that ring back!)

So that "he doesn't have to bother".
If he really doesn't want to give it back, no matter what seems the reasons, TELL your Granma about it or anyone else around you that could help!

It's very important that you don't give up or even if you strongly wish to, don't let your dad see it.
So he understand you REALLY want it back!

I personally think that the "true" value of the ring is not important, it's how much you appreciate the gift from your Granma.
You don't need to appraise it to be happy~ :3
(And I also doesn't quite feel that "appraising" part of his too... I feel it's a lie and I hope it's not!)

I'd stay more to continue talking to you, but I have to go to sleep(I have to get up in about 6hours and a few minutes for work and kinda stayed a bit up so I could be a bit there for you~ ^-^)

ok good night and thanks for the advice

It's a pleasure, hope it work out good with you!
Goodnight~ ^-^

I don't have any advice for your current situation, Future, but I am praying for you. Feel free to message me if you need another listening ear. Wishing you the best!