This going to sound really dumb, but... I've been on this site for two weeks now, and the only friend who shows up in my contacts is the friend who invited me here. I've both sent and received friend requests, but none of them show up in my contacts. Is there something else I'm supposed to do to make it work? Did I click the wrong thing? @_@;;

Adding contacts on Sylestia's a bit wonky. x:

When someone sends you an 'Add Friend' request, and you accept it, I think they only show up in your list, but not on theirs (at least, that's what happened in my experience).
Vice versa, if you send a request to them and the accept it, but they don't send one back for you to accept, you show up on their list but you're not on theirs. It's a one-way process. x:

So the only thing is to ensure that both of you sent contact requests to each other, and both of you accepted each other's. I think.

Okay, so it's not just me being an idiot, then! <.<;; Maybe it'll get fixed when it moves from beta? (I hope.)

Thanks for answering! ^^ <3