Soooo This last weekend I found out something. It was very scary at first, but I am coming to grips finally. I have only told my close family and friends. I thought about posting it to FB and realized I have more people on Sylestia I care about than on my Facebook XD



* VESH IS HAVING A BABY * (Highlight between the stars for a surprise :p )

wow congrats :DDDD

Congrats!!!

If you'd like to talk to a fellow parent my inbox is open. :)

I really appreciate that! So far everything is going well, but if anything strange happens having someone to talk to is great!

And thanks Blue!

I'm glad to be of help to you. :)

If you have any questions right now feel free to send them my way. My little one is 2 years old, but I have helped with(or raised in the case of my daughter) kids ages 0-16, so I've got loads of info and I can even recomend a few books that may help you out.

I've been around children my whole life. I practically raised my cousin. The actually pregnancy is scarier for me than anything. Although I'm not having much trouble yet. I get tired really easy and a little nausea, but no actual morning sickness yet *knocks on wood*

IF you get mourning sickness *knocks on wood that you don't* keep saltines, bread, tortlias, ginger ale, 7up, and the like on hand. DO NOT talke ANY nausia meds without finding out if their is a law suit on them first, my younger sister Hannah was givin one while she was pregnate with my niece which come to find out caused my neice's birth defect(kidney probles that requiored lots of times in hospitals and surgeries). Trt to stick with non med nausea solutions as long as you can, cause the meds may not agree with you either. I know I had to take one that just made it worse for me...but I had severe morning sickness(something that only a small percentage of women get), I was in the ER for IV fluids once per week for 6 weeks...and only IV anti nausea meds seemed to work, but they made me super sleepy.

I recomend taking naps, just like an hour or two or going to bed early/sleeping in IF any of those is an option. Carry light snacks with you too, and plenty of water, tea, milk, & healthy drinks. Light exercize is a big help too, it makes loosing weight after the baby easier to loose if that is something you want to do in a shortish time frame.

On a note for how to best help your baby after he/she is born, breast fed babies have better immune systems, get sick less often and for shorter periods of time, it's free, and super healthy for them. Try it IF you want to, I can guide you threw it, as I brest fed my daughter.

Keep me posted, and I'll do my best to help out.

BTW, I have loads of name books so if you give me your favorite letterers, favorite countries, and you 4 favorite numbers(for me to use for syllable counts and the number of letters in a name) I can make you a list to work with.

wow, Vesh, thats great, I never knew you were married, thats awesome! Name the baby Vesh? :D

Congrats on the boy Sonally! :) I'm just over 7 weeks. I have my first appointment on sep 3rd

Night I am NOT married :p it doesn't take marriage to make a baby XDDDDD

LDD: I totally plan to breastfeed if I can. I am all for antibodies and bonding. Hopefully my body will behave. My mom was practically a dairy cow so here's hoping XD

I like L names but really I just like kind of classic/unusual names like I love Lucca/Lucien/Lucia. I like Vivienne as well. I don't know that I have favorite letters :/ I like M names, R...but really if it's a good name I don't care. I don't know where the boyfriend is. Last we talked about it the names he wanted were awful XD

All I know is if it is a boy his middle last name combo will be David Eugene Baxter. David after my Papa, Eugene is a family name of the daddy, and my last name. For girls ive got nothing XD I just want something nice, kind of unusual (but not super out there so as to make their lives miserable), and that flows well together. Names that are awkward to yell are the worst XD