So, 3 years ago, I met someone. Back then, it was 3rd grade. We called each other names for a while, and then a fragile friendship grew. We called each other 'Best Frenemies'. A lot of people spread rumors like: "They're dating" and so. This was mainly because I said "Beaneath his violent, car-loving exterior, there is a good boy inside of him." And we were friends for a long time. Then, in fourth grade, a girl came around. We let her in. That was all my fault, she ended up being the destruction of our friendship. That came in 5th grade. Now, in 6th grade his locker is close to mine and I see him every day, but I can't say anything to him. I cry at night, sometimes to sleep, just because of this, I miss his friendship, and I wish with all my heart we could be friends again... but I'm pretty sure it won't happen.

I just felt like letting this out, excuse me while I go cry, trying to stop my tears by going in the winter festival zone.

Babaaeyes, I am so sorry. When I was in 6th grade, that happened to me as well. I lost friends because of other people...

Some things you could do maybe is:

Talk to the principle to maybe change your locker

Try showing him that you actually care anout him, and would like to be friends. If you think he wont listen, at least try. Do actually try to talk to him and tell him what kind of friend he was. If he still doesnt listen, try to tell your other friends and try to make that message get to him.

Show the other person who broke that friendship... That she messed with the wrong person. That you didnt do anything for her to distroy your friendship with him. And do all you can to get your friend back.


Dont give up Babaaeyes. This is your friend. He was your friend first, not hers. From what I gotten to know from you, you are a very nice person. You dont diserve to cry yourself to sleep at night. You know you dont. And if you need anyone to talk to, I would live to be that friend, the friend that helps.

I really hope this helps and make you feel better.

Did you ever think maybe he feels the same way and has the same thoughts....but is also afraid to say anything?
Guys tend to hide there feelings more than girls...so maybe just a simple hello to him one day will help break the ice. ;)

Hey its a new year...worth a try :)

Babaaeyes, maybe if you actually listened sometimes I would tell you how to fix this in RL (and yes everyone above gave good advice) you just can't give up!(that girl was a pain I told you to not be friends with her) (just like what my art teacher said at art earlier today)

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=20394&page=1#4 Author: CuddlyFierc Time Posted: 1/6/2015 at 7:24 PM Babaaeyes, maybe if you actually listened sometimes I would tell you how to fix this in RL (and yes everyone above gave good advice) you just can't give up!(that girl was a pain I told you to not be friends with her) (just like what my art teacher said at art earlier today)

Wait... Mrs. DELETED said that?

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=20394&page=1#2 Author: Dauntlessscale1 Time Posted: 12/31/2014 at 6:06 PM Babaaeyes, I am so sorry. When I was in 6th grade, that happened to me as well. I lost friends because of other people... Some things you could do maybe is: Talk to the principle to maybe change your locker Try showing him that you actually care anout him, and would like to be friends. If you think he wont listen, at least try. Do actually try to talk to him and tell him what kind of friend he was. If he still doesnt listen, try to tell your other friends and try to make that message get to him. Show the other person who broke that friendship... That she messed with the wrong person. That you didnt do anything for her to distroy your friendship with him. And do all you can to get your friend back. Dont give up Babaaeyes. This is your friend. He was your friend first, not hers. From what I gotten to know from you, you are a very nice person. You dont diserve to cry yourself to sleep at night. You know you dont. And if you need anyone to talk to, I would live to be that friend, the friend that helps. I really hope this helps and make you feel better.

I know this is kinda late to say... But the first time I read this I cried with joy...to know that this is such a nice community. I can't believe how incredibly kind you are, Dauntless. I think I'm lucky that you posted this. Every time I feel down about him, I read this and it gives me a bit of happiness. Thank you so much, Dauntless, for that.

**hugs and snuggles you tightly**

I keep trying to get his attention- by sending notes. I can't talk to him in person because rumors and gossip spread too quickly in my school, and the last thing I need at a time like this is people nagging me about me and him dating, especially because i don't even know if we are friends anymore. So I passed on a note to him. I know he got it, I can trust my best friend. But, I don't know what he did with it. I just have to wait, but I really feel as if he could've thrown it away. *Sigh* What now?

You are an amazing person and if that dude fails to see that, then he's got problems.
And don't worry, you don't have to hesitate to rant or talk about your feelings with your best friends. Got a sibling or something? Because they can either make you feel better (or like crap but that's not the point)
Like have a chill session with somebody you care about and talk to them.
And if everybody in your life is a jerk
well then you have the community here.
You rock, gurl. Just don't forget <3

Because I feel like writing an update:

I did something I knew I would regret if I didn't. For a while, it made me feel better, but I still feel bad now. I don't know why, but it feels like even though I want to move on, I still just can't. *sigh* I just don't know what to do.