Don't force yourself to love her. Forcing a relationship leads to much more stress. Let it come to you. If they don't, they don't. Let her down easily, tell her you'd rather be friends for now and wait and see if it becomes something more. I'm only 13 myself but I know enough I guess.

I'm in a relationship but I feel like I don't actually like him/her (not saying genders/ age) I feel like we should break up but i'm to scared to please help me think up of ways to get him to dump me instead. The reasons I want to break up with him/her is my own personal reasons and i'm not comfortable telling them on a forum post. Please help me I need advice.

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=37516&page=7#62 Author: Starmax Time Posted: 11/19/2016 at 10:45 AM How to impress a girl? //please none of that clich "be yourself" kinda thing unless you really get in depth about what you mean b/c I've heard it too many times & it hasn't worked in the past

Physically dominate anyone who poses as possible competition, cementing your position as alpha-person

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=37516&page=7#64 Author: Nightvisions101 Time Posted: 11/19/2016 at 4:18 PM I'm in a relationship but I feel like I don't actually like him/her (not saying genders/ age) I feel like we should break up but i'm to scared to please help me think up of ways to get him to dump me instead. The reasons I want to break up with him/her is my own personal reasons and i'm not comfortable telling them on a forum post. Please help me I need advice.

It depends on what your reasons for wanting to terminate the relationship are... I won't pressure you to tell them, of course, but I'll assume they're something normal and they're not like abusive in anyway or anything. So part of me wants to be like "take the high road! Be mature and up front!" and honestly that is the best thing to do.

But if you want to try to pressure him/her to break up with you, here's what I'd suggest:
Just be as emotionally disengaged and indifferent as possible until they'll want to move on. If they have intense feelings for you that could be very cruel. bear in mind.

thank you.
One of my friends asked me if i could ask for some advice for them.
there are worried that his/her boy/girlfriend is arguing with his/her friends because of her if this is true why would that be and what could she/he do about it to help fix it thank you.

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=37516&page=7#63 Author: Coda Time Posted: 11/19/2016 at 3:15 PM So..um. Hi. Okay, so I have this crush on one of my friends. Well, we're kinda friends. We have..a mutual commitment to a local group. We don't live near each other, we don't live in the same town even. I don't have his number..I actually don't have a phone-but that's another story. Anyway. I'll go to the group, ok..it's an orchestra. We only have it once a week, for only limited times a year. gawd, this sound awful. I'm so sorry Um..so we had a retreat during our final concert, and we hung out a bit..it was fun, and i think he might like me too. But i also want to keep on being friends with him. So I don't really want to tell him..i did tell my friends about him, hnng..they're saying that i should hug him or ask him out..but it's so easy for them to say, cause the people they like like them back. It's actually really tough for me to see my friends with their crushes. It's evident they like each other..i'm in the corner figuratively, they don't exclude me thinking about him. Thinking if he likes me back. Point is..i find me listing to songs we played more and more. What should i do..helppp.

I may sound like a broken record but you should tell him how you feel. And I know it's a lot easier said than done because I'm shy when it comes to reveling my feeling as well, especially when it comes to crushes.
And if you want you can write him a note or draw him a picture asking or even refereed to how you guys met, it's up to you, do what you feel is best. It's better to tell him how you feel because you release unresolved emotions, even if he doesn't feel the same, at least you'll get it off you're chest. And Besides, it seems that you guys are close friends so he would let you down easy. It's better to confess a day too soon than a minute too late. Believe me when I say it because I've actually been in a very similar situation, and it didn't go too well.

~I tried, I really hope it helps and I wish you the best of luck :)

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=37516&page=7#62 Author: Starmax Time Posted: 11/19/2016 at 10:45 AM How to impress a girl? //please none of that clich "be yourself" kinda thing unless you really get in depth about what you mean b/c I've heard it too many times & it hasn't worked in the past

Displaying lots of confidence and being funny are often naturally attractive

@Nightvisions101

Could you go into more detail? What about her are they fighting about?