I'm either pansexual or demiromantic. Maybe both??? I dunno. We should just forget about having names for different sexualities and gender identities. It'd make life so much easier.

Hey :)
I'm a bisexual female, yay I definitely lean more towards girls though. Like an 80/20 split :)

I'm sexually fluid. Hai.

I'm over here like, I'm 30% gay!

I've been struggling with all those gender questions for a long time.

at 13 or something around that I started identifying as a male and was very serious about it. it went on until recent times, when I realised it actually doesn't matter, like all the other labels and stereotypes. well, physically I am female, but I don't identify as a woman, neither do I identify as a man; I am a human being and that's it. I am a soul, not a body.

however, here on the site I prefer to be referred to as a male, because my avatar, Lokiarti, is a male...um...creature. :D I think that when people talk to me, they don't communicate with my physical form directly, instead they are addressing my avatar. therefore, I like he/him/his pronouns here. on the other sites, where you don't have such avatars, I'm okay with any pronouns, though they/them/their suits me the best in my opinion.

feel free to message me about all that if you're interested. :D

I'm just a boring, regular gay guy. :P

Link: https://www.sylestia.com/forums/?thread=32829&page=4#35 Author: Allosarusrock Time Posted: 1/27/2017 at 12:58 AM I'm over here like, I'm 30% gay!

I'm sorry. I had stayed up until 1:00 studying the previous night.

Why? Why would you want to meet people based on sexuality? This is a children's game. Why not go around and actually meet people and make friends for their personality instead of what they "identify" as? It's HIGHLY inappropriate to ask people their sexuality preferences on a game site where children play, don't you think?

Besides, if you're overly concerned with people's sexuality that you feel the need to ask, just look back at yourself because what i see is that you're uncomfortable with who YOU are. If you were comfortable, you wouldn't need to seek validation from outside sources... There are better ways to connect with people like, favorite video games or hobbies or sports or anime etc. I just find it really creepy people jump to "what's your sexuality" or "what do you identify as?" when they meet someone. Just... Inappropriate...

(sorry for the rant, I hope you don't find it "upsetting" and if you do, i'm not sorry for trying to help you understand. I've been seeing this cancerous stuff more and more and I just don't want to see this infectious cultural Marxist "confusion" on Sylestia become more and more "overt".)

PS: Your sexuality/preference should never be your defining characteristic because you are MORE than what you think your "gender" should or should not be.

"It's HIGHLY inappropriate to ask people their sexuality preferences on a game site where children play, don't you think?"
Technically you have to be 13 to play, so they are not children. Plus its not a bad thing to say the word 'gay' or 'lesbian. In fact, we should teach kids what it is, and how to use the words appropriately. Being part of the lgbtq+ community shouldn't make you uncomfortable. I should be allowed to express my sexuality in any way appropriate, because honestly, I shouldn't have to worry about making someone uncomfortable.


"I just find it really creepy people jump to "what's your sexuality" or "what do you identify as?" when they meet someone. Just... Inappropriate... "

Well, I ask those questions all the time. That way I know what people like to be called/pronouns etc. Nothing wrong with that is there?


"There are better ways to connect with people like, favorite video games or hobbies or sports or anime etc."
So, its okay to have a anime club, or game club but not a lgbtq+ club?


" If you were comfortable, you wouldn't need to seek validation from outside sources..."
Yeah, a lot of people are uncomfortable with it. We live in a society where heterosexuality is a normality. Did you have to come out as straight to your parents? Probably not since that is expected. You know why people are uncomfortable with it? Because this year alone, trans people have been killed. Gay people. Bi people. They have been killed, tortured, assaulted. Or the fact that I'm more likely to commit suicide? The facts are against us. So yeah, it makes sense why we are uncomfortable sometimes.


"Why? Why would you want to meet people based on sexuality?"
Same reason why I would want to meet someone if they like the same music. Because they understand. Obviously a straight cis person would understand gender dysphoric, and trouble finding a bathroom. They wouldn't understand it.


" I hope you don't find it "upsetting" and if you do, i'm not sorry for trying to help you understand"
I found this upsetting. And I really don't think you understand. You didn't help me understand, you came off as homophobic. So, by saying 'I'm not sorry for trying to help you understand' Just means your close minded. You don't see the other side.


" I've been seeing this cancerous stuff more and more and I just don't want to see this infectious cultural Marxist "confusion" on Sylestia"
Cancerous? Is that the word to describe my sexuality and everyone else's? It's not infectious. My sexuality, gender, pronouns are not up to you.


"PS: Your sexuality/preference should never be your defining characteristic because you are MORE than what you think your "gender" should or should not be."
We aren't making it our defining character. But gender/sexuality does take a role in everyday life. Your name, your pronouns, who you are friends with, what problems you face. I'm not just a sexuality, gender, race. You need to understand, that just because you've never struggled with it, doesn't mean other people don't. A white person does understand POC racism, a cis person doesn't understand transphobia, a straight person doesn't understand homophobic ridicule, a normal person doesn't understand anxiety/depression.


Overall, you shouldn't be concerned. Children can see this, I hope they do. They need to learn that being 'pansexual', 'genderfluid', 'bisexual, and every other gender and sexuality is ok. We shouldn't alienize it. My gender isn't toxic. My sexual preference isn't choice. My pronouns, not yours.