Have you lost someone dear to your heart..? Like a family member or a friend(by loss of life or something that ended friendship, like meddlesome things..)



I have... on both terms.. :'(

I've lost my step-father, a few years back, a heart attack. And lost many friends too. Sometimes we parted because of life (I moved a lot) sometimes because I hung to false friends, not liking me for real, I was just convenient because good at school. Sometimes, simply because as I said, our personnality stopped matching.

There are fights too, although I'm not somebody to hold grudges, some of my friends are, or were.

I also have no news of my father. I never was good enough for him. He's a salesman, and I never was the most popular girl anywhere. A socially-awkward daughter is not good for showing to your friends. After I got old enough to get tired of him trying to fix me up, we grew apart.


Everybody has stories like this. Tripping up is part of life.

My grandma died about 5 months ago... and I caused a chain of events last year that to her eventual death..

I don't know the events in question, so I can't really say anything about it, but I would say it's common to feel responsible for someone close's death. The only thing I can say is it eventually gets better with time. Although I may not be the best person to say this.

I have similair experiences recently. I lost my grandmother almost 5 months ago. A loss is hard to go through, but you'll never get over it. I don't think you would want to get over it either.

People are special to us for different reasons, and they are given to us to learn. I'm still sad about my loss, but it gets easier. She was special, but I know that she is much more at rest. It's hard to explain why I'm happy about it, it's not like I would want it, but there is some sort of peace that comes over you knowing that they are in a better state.



As for friends. Friends aren't forever, you'll make new ones, lose a few. But while doing this you find out your real friends. It also helps strengthen you too. You also learn about yourself, and you learn from you mistakes. I recently de-friended one of my long time friends of about 9 years. I'm happier now though since she was making me feel worse about myself the past few months. Losses aren't always bad, they just leave yourself with a new attitude.

I've lost a best friend, as in kinder we were bffs, but after 1st grade she was getting really mean and more aggressive towards me and my friend group, and others too! We had already split by second grade, and I didn't care, but she might have actually tried to get back at me, IDK because she never did, and if she tried we would probably laugh it off like no big deal.

Oh. I've also lost a pet before.
When I was younger, ( idk which grade, I think first ) I had a turtle, and one day, I went home, and we got inside ( my mom drives me and picks me up sometimes, or my dad does ). Later that day I ask "Where's my turtle?" and my mom just told me she was sick and had to go to the vet. I was really worried. The next day ( I think it was the next day, because this was many years ago ) my dad came home from work without my turtle. I asked what happened, and he told me that she was "released" Now I know what he meant because Box Tortoises can't swim very well. She was put down. Her shell wasn't growing with her, and once he told me that I said "Oh.. Okay." and went to my room and cried. Now I've gotten over it, and it hurts to have someone you love go away. If you're reading this and you've recently lost someone, you'll eventually get over it. If I have, you can too.

I lost my grandma back in 2006, then my dog Girldog when I was in the third grade, in 2013 on the 25th of October I lost one of my brothers and had to watch my mama try to commit suicide because she believed it was her fault that he died, then a year and two days later on October 27, 2014, she past away and it been almost twos years since she died but to this day when someone brings her up or if I do while talking about her I start crying. When she died I thought so much about joining her but I never try to just because of my daddy,siblings, and other family members.

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My mother passed away last year, one week before christmas. she had been battling with a brain tumor for 6 years before this and had more than 3 surgeries to try to take it out. every time, though, the tumor came back even faster. What eventually took her life wasnt the tumor, though. She got pneumonia and her immune system was so bad at that point that her skull filled with fluids and killed her within a week. I still miss her