Have you ever been ignored on purpose by a close friend on the internet and that friend won't tell you WHY they are ignoring you..?

I have... :'(


Can somebody please answer me...? :(

I'm not sure what issue you have with your friend, so I'll try to offer some general solutions. o:

Try to put your feet in your friend's shoes.
Imagine you were them for a bit. Can you think of any reason why they'd ignore you? Try to examine yourself from a 3rd person point of view to try and understand where your friend is coming from.

Ask them honestly what's wrong.
Send them a message (one message) asking what's wrong or what the issue is. It's hard to be honest, and being straightforward can be quite difficult when emotions are involved. But finding the truth is probably the most important, and should be the first step so you can fix what went wrong.

Give some time and space.
Dwelling too much on a problem might worsen your mood, and you might have less of a chance at trying to solve the problem when you're feeling worse than before. So maybe get off the computer and get some fresh air, or do something else that you'd like. Maybe draw, or exercise, or take a walk outside? o:
Sometimes, getting off the situation for a bit helps your mind relax and gives your brain some time to unconsciously reflect. Maybe you'll have a different perspective when you come back from your break.

I hope things go well with your friend. ^^; Take things calmly, one step at a time.

Its been happening for months and I have been sending her messages... and I even tried to message her while she is literally online..

I did try asking her but I still got no reply...

It seems like you can't force her to answer, and at times like this, you shouldn't be too pushy or persistent about your issue. I'd suggest to give her some space for now. o:

Find a separate hobby or activity that you can enjoy and get your mind off of things. ^^ I find that to be very helpful!

hmmm... It's sort of risky but you could try to guilt trip her...

A guilt trip option might be "Fine. If you don't want to be friends with me anymore, then so be it. I'm not going to be friends with someone who ignores me 24/7 and won't even tell me why. Goodbye." and pretend to do that...

but like I said, it's pretty risky. Only do it if you have NO other options...

(yeah I'm that rude person who will do that to someone I'm close to if that were to happen xD I'm not too good at advice, but it's still an option and she might be like ''Is it really worth ignoring someone if I'm going to lose them?" and she might not. If you're confident, then do what you may.)

It's just an option.

PS what happened to your starter pet? xD

I DID gave her space...

The last time she answered was January 28th... 4 months.. :(

I am not sure...


I only made this account so I can talk to my friend since our regular method was shut down...

And this is the only other website we can talk on...

what's her username?

Her name is Ninjakitty..

Here

https://www.sylestia.com/view/users/?userid=38495